I’m at my wit’s end. My 9 month oldย is so unhappy and keeps getting fevers. I am so worried that something serious is wrong but we’ve been to the doctor half a dozen times and they can’t find anything. Today, a lady from church came by and I burst into tears. She said that my son is probably just teething. Apparently, when she was a mother they used to slit the baby’s gums if they were struggling a lot with teething. She did say that she doesn’t think they do that anymore and that there is probably some new technique, so I thought I’d write and check. First, does teething cause fevers. Second, is there a newer technique or do you still slit the gums? That seems awful to me but he’s miserable so I’m not sure if it’s mean to leave him that way.
Penny
Dear Penny,
It is never easy being a parent. However, you are doing a better job than you think. Yes, it is true that teething can cause a fever, but only a low-grade fever. If it is a high fever, I would keep investigating. You will also find some other symptoms too:
- They will be more fussy than normal.
- Some babies pull at their ears.
- There gums could be swollen.
- They could drool more.
- Loss of appetite.
- Difficulty sleeping.
I have never heard of slitting a child’s gums. There is not a new technique for dealing with a teething baby. However, I would NOT recommend you go with the slitting method. There is a reason that our bodies are designed for those teeth to push through. That pressure is coming from the eruption of the tooth root as it is growing. If you slit the gums, the teeth will come out prematurely and the root will not have the strength to support the tooth properly.
You can give a fussy baby some children’s Tylenol, as long as your pediatrician approves. There are also teething rings and some over the counter numbing medication. I’ll be honest, the numbing medication is very temporary.
By the way, once your child’s tooth erupts, this is a good time to introduce them to a pediatric dentist. It is always best for them to first see a dentist when it is fun and there are no problems with their teeth. Too many parents wait until there is a dental emergency. Then the child associates the dentist with the pain of that urgent appointment.
It’s hard to believe this right now, but this will pass… then, he’ll be a teenager!
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